That’s What I’ve Been Saying

Over the years I’ve mediated disputes (not legal mediation) between people. On several occasions I found it interesting that they both had the same position but the vocabulary they were using to express themselves was not registering with each other. On those occasions I found the words and would ask, “So-and-so, are you saying this?” When they responded yes, the other would say, “That’s what I’ve been saying.”

The point here is that sometimes we need to find another way of saying what we are saying to get the point across. Sometimes, it takes someone else to do it for us. When I read this post, I thought, this is exactly what I’ve been saying. What I’ve been saying in particular is how we (the church) gloss over the difficult parts of scripture rather than contemplating them and working them out.

We simply cannot let the passage say what it says and do what it is meant to do.

Jim ELliff, Reading Scripture Rightly

Elliff makes the point that we sometimes are too quick to look at certain passages and immediately try to counter it with another passage that seems to state the opposite.

I think we could liken this to the skill needed when counseling people about work performance. Often people want to turn the conversation from their performance issue with statements like, “Yeah but he/she did it too,” “we’ve always…” or “I was trying to…” As humans, we will do about anything to get out of the discomfort of having to confrontĀ  our own shortcomings.

One of the saddest things as a supervisor was always to counsel someone and have them walk out having not owned up to the issue they were having. You could watch them walking away from their career because they weren’t willing to face their own difficult issues. Do we do the same thing with our faith? Do we skip over or fail to correctly understand scripture because doing so challenges some of our beliefs and makes us uncomfortable? Do we walk away from what God truly wants of us?