The fear of man is a snare, but the one who trusts in the LORD is protected. ~Proverbs 29:25
He who, through fear of what man may do to him, think or say of him, does what he knows to be wrong, lets his moral cowardice lead him into sin, leaves duty undone, – such a man gets no real good from his weakness, outrages conscience, displeases God. See our Lord’s words (Matthew 10:28; Mark 8:38; and comp. Isaiah 51:12, etc). Whoso putteth his trust in the Lord shall be safe (Proverbs 18:10). Such trust carries a man safe through all dangers; fearing to offend God, living as always under his eye, he feels Divine protection, and knows that whatever happens is for the best. The LXX. joins this to the preceding verse, thus: “He who shareth with a thief hateth his own soul; and if, when an oath is offered, they who hear it give, no information, they fearing and reverencing men, are overthrown, but he that trusteth in the Lord shall rejoice.” They add another rendering of the last verse, “Ungodliness causeth a man to stumble, but he who trusts in the Lord (ἐπὶ τῷ δεσπότῃ2 Peter 2:1) shall be saved.” Δεσπότης is used for Jehovah in the New Testament, e.g., Luke 2:29; Acts 4:24.
God’s Word can be pretty difficult sometimes. Especially when you’ve been engaged in a long-term struggle. Certainly we need to keep verses like Matthew 11:29 in mind. But a relationship with God is not always easy.
Proverbs 24:10 is clear. We are called to be strong. We’re going to face challenges, difficulties, persecutions, and more for being obedient to God. Be obedient anyway.
What does this have to do with the commentary above? How is the fear of man a snare? The snare is that we fail to do what we are convicted of and thereby sin (James 4:17).
He who, through fear of what others may think, leaves duty undone, displeases God.
Society has conditioned us to seek approval above all else. Wear the right clothes, don’t offend anyone, and have the right stuff. None of that matters. When we neglect our duty to do what must be done we lose out. We lose out on blessings and we lose out on the chance to get fulfilled by seeing we have a role in God’s Kingdom.